To Strap or Not to Strap

This is a question I'm often asked during seminars. What about strapless or spaghetti strap dresses or tops?

My response is usually this, if a woman is going to wear a halter top, tube top, spaghetti straps, or strapless top or dress, she should make a small investment in one of the wonderful multi-way bras that are available nowadays. For everyone's sake, if you have on a black top, please do not wear a colored or white bra and leave the bra strap visible. Folks in Hollywood can get away with almost anything, but quite frankly, us everyday people cannot. If males should not wear their pants sagging displaying their underwear, females should not have their bra straps noticeable. Equal opportunity Do's and Don'ts. :o)

I once overheard a gentleman say to the woman he was with, referring to another woman nearby "why are her bra straps showing"?

Mothers, Aunties, Friends, Romans and countrymen, lend me your ear, please don't allow your daughter, niece, student, friend, enemy or frenemy walk out with their bra straps showing, it's too many options in bras for this to be happening. Each one teach one... and Smile, it's the best accessory you have !